Have you ever had something happen that is so painful that it makes you sick? Like, someone said something to hurt you or told you something they should never have told you or you found something out that you were never supposed to know?
I wish that there was a way to turn emotions on and off. Or maybe put in a drain that whenever you are so filled with hurt, anger or other painful emotions that you could just turn on the faucet and let them all out.
I'm finding that I don't know how to deal with some of these things.
How do you explain to people that you already have more than enough to deal with and don't need more? How do you balance what you feel you "should" do with what you "want" to do with what you really need to do?! How do you know what it is that you need to do? What if you THINK it's what you need but then find out it was only what you want? How do you tell someone they they've hurt you when you know all that will do is hurt them? How do you figure out the root of the pain?
I wish that there was a way to turn emotions on and off. Or maybe put in a drain that whenever you are so filled with hurt, anger or other painful emotions that you could just turn on the faucet and let them all out.
I'm finding that I don't know how to deal with some of these things.
How do you explain to people that you already have more than enough to deal with and don't need more? How do you balance what you feel you "should" do with what you "want" to do with what you really need to do?! How do you know what it is that you need to do? What if you THINK it's what you need but then find out it was only what you want? How do you tell someone they they've hurt you when you know all that will do is hurt them? How do you figure out the root of the pain?
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